After years of navigating the heart-wrenching journey of infertility, countless treatments, and
countless tears, I find myself asking, “What is the next best thing to pregnancy?” The emotional
toll of trying and failing repeatedly has left me exhausted, and I need to find a way to reclaim my
life and joy.

I started this journey with a heart full of hope, dreaming of the day I’d hold my baby in my arms.
But as time passed and treatments failed, that hope turned into a relentless burden. Each
negative result felt like a dagger, cutting deeper into my spirit. I reached a point where I had to
ask myself: How much more can I endure?

In my search for answers and peace, I found Newbees, a digital platform designed to support
people like me who are struggling with infertility. Through Newbees, I’ve learned that the next
best thing to pregnancy is finding fulfilment and happiness in the present moment, despite the
challenges.

Newbees offers a range of personalized support that goes beyond medical treatment. Their
video journaling tool has become a vital part of my daily routine, helping me express my
thoughts and emotions freely. This tool, combined with the guidance of top ART specialists, has
given me a new perspective on my journey.

I’ve begun to explore other avenues of joy and fulfilment. I’ve rekindled old hobbies, like painting
and gardening, which bring me a sense of peace and accomplishment. I’ve also become
involved in community activities, finding solace in helping others and connecting with people
who share similar struggles.

The support from Newbees has been crucial in helping me understand that my worth and
happiness are not solely tied to becoming a mother. While the dream of pregnancy is still close
to my heart, I’ve learned that there are many ways to build a meaningful and joyous life.
Whether through adoption, fostering, or simply nurturing the relationships I already have, there
are countless paths to fulfilment.

To anyone else who is tired of the relentless cycle of infertility treatments, know that it’s okay to
step back and reassess your journey. Finding joy and purpose in other aspects of life doesn’t
mean giving up on your dream; it means embracing the present and all the possibilities it holds.

The next best thing to pregnancy is discovering the myriad ways you can find happiness and love
right where you are.

Tamanna, Shillong